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From a very young age, I seemed to have an innate fascination with human behaviour. It always made me curious that two people can go through the exact same situation, and yet have a completely different ‘experience’ (emotions, self-talk etc).

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Clearly, in life, we cannot control the wind (what happens), but we can adjust our sails (how we respond) and our outcomes from there. 

 

For well over 20 years I have immersed myself in observing and studying the human experience and how to help end suffering in people in profound and yet very fast ways. This has led me down a multitude of paths studying well over 15 different Modalities in order to help people from a wide-ranging holistic approach in order to clear the actual cause (blocks) of any challenge and create solutions to even the toughest of situations and cases.

 

One of the most common complaints I hear again and again is my clients' frustration at leaving counsellors, therapists and Psychology rooms feeling worse than when they arrived with very little to no resolution and true relief from what ‘causes’ their suffering. Don't get me wrong, there are effective professionals out there, however, most models are so antiquated that people are becoming sick of constantly talking about and being affected by past trauma of any nature. 

 

Thankfully Biography does not have to be destiny, in that the past does not have to determine the future any more (the wake behind the boat doesn't determine the direction the boat heads next). Sometimes I have clients so sick of talking about their problems to past therapists that they prefer not to go over it again, and with a slew of powerful processes under my belt, it is possible to completely collapse any and all emotional trauma regardless of the scale, without even having to go into the content or detail of the situation. 

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We are all gifted with the most powerful computer that life will ever know, and yet we are never given a user manual, and it is certainly not over user friendly as I'm sure you have noticed.

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“No child is born needing therapy”

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If you were to evaluate your current level of fulfilment and success in all areas of your life, from your health to your working life and your finances, in your relationship (self and others), unless every area is consistently improving and adding more and more happiness/ fulfilment to your life, then you must have resistance. And this resistance points directly back to your past conditioning, ie events and people’s influence on you. And the lingering programs, beliefs, emotions etc that are stored Subconsciously, reveal themselves to you when you get triggered in life, experience blocks, negative patterns, pain, lack etc. and unless these programs are cleared at the Subconscious level, they will only go on to create more and more pervasive blocks and adversity in more areas of your life.

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“Ignorance is not bliss & Time does NOT heal wounds”

 

It is tempting and seems easier to suppress/ignore and forge ahead without addressing the root cause of our resistance in life, however, this never works. Similarly, if you had a problem with your car engine and you chose to ignore it and cover the light on the dash with tape, you know you are in for more trouble that will cost you more over time and distance. 

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Whatever you fail to pay attention to in life (your health, finances, relationship etc) in time you will pay with pain. So ignoring and hoping time will make things better is unfortunately ineffective. Many times I hear back from people who reached out initially for a chat that decided to just forge ahead hoping things will get better / work out, who ended up calling back in a much deeper state of suffering and adversity down the track regretting they didn’t act upon and resolve things when they initially reached out. After all, would you rather do something about this now, or would you prefer to wait until it (inevitably) gets worse!?

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My main aim with every client I interact with is to leave you much better than where I found you, including the first interaction. It may seem very difficult to believe however every day I share time with my clients, we are collapsing their biggest darkest emotional triggers completely (not partially),  to the point they can no longer access them again. 

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Take Anxiety for example, this is the most common pattern I have seen an increase over the past decade or so. I have literally worked with a multitude of clients who have thought they had something so desperately wrong with them that no form of therapy had helped to reduce let alone remove it completely. Time and time again I have collapsed even the most debilitating cases in one treatment. I know that sounds completely impossible and ridiculous, but I don’t blame you at all for that reaction, so feel free to look at the testimonials page on this website to make up your own mind. 

 

You no longer have to live with any emotional triggers that continue to get in your way. And I'm sure you have noticed that over the years they don’t stay the same, they have a more pervasive negative impact on your life, and if ignored/suppressed, will in time form physical ailments (pain, disease, illness etc).

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The universal law of Sympathetic Resonance:

We have all hear the expression ‘what goes around, comes around’, or ‘careful what you wish for’, or ‘ask and yea shall received’. These all highlight the principle of Sympathetic Resonance, put simply if you place two pianos in 1 room and hit any note, lets say the ‘C’ note on 1 piano, the ‘C’ string on the other piano will start vibrating and humming, and you will hear it even though no one touched that piano. 

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One day I had my acoustic guitar sitting in my office next to my computer, and when the song playing on my computer stopped, I heard the ‘D’ string humming on my guitar, I put my finger on it and felt it vibrating and yet no one touched it - why? Because that song playing on my computer was in the key of ‘D’ - what goes around, literally comes around!

 

What’s my point?

Having worked with hundred of clients over the years, I can tell you with absolute certainty that the common pattern is they were all focused on/ thinking more and more about what they were trying to prevent/ avoid/ hope does not happen/ reduce etc (stress, fat, emotional, lonely etc). 

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Remember when you purchased a new car once (second hand or brand new) and all of a sudden you noticed more and more of them on the road, but you were not actually looking for them.  

Anyone out in the world focused and concerned about preventing anything at all, lets say ‘stress’, has the same part of the mind that is responsible for noticing more cars on the road you just purchased, powerfully programmed and constantly looking for (subconsciously) more data externally, and thoughts, feelings, ideas and emotions internally to help create more ‘stress’ (Sympathetic Resonance).

 

The World Around you is Merely a Mirror, how do you like your reflection:

If you didn’t like your reflection in the mirror, it wouldn’t make sense to get a new one delivered, and when you still don’t like your reflection, order and different one again and again, yet this is exactly what people are doing in their lives in so many (if not all) areas. We are trying to change / control external people, factors, scenarios so we can either not feel what we don’t want, or hopefully try to feel more of what we do, yet this leaves you reliant upon people and scenarios aligning perfectly with your expectations for life to go well for you - good luck!

 

In nature it’s called ‘as above, so below’ meaning if the tree leaves are shrivelling up and dyeing, check the soil - is it dry, contaminated etc? And in the human experience it is called ‘as within, so without’ meaning, the world around you is merely a reflection of your inner world (Sympathetic Resonance).  Think of the classic victim in life constant complaining about things, and they always have more and more showing up for them to complain about — as within, so without!

If the world around you is going to change, first YOU must change (thinking, clear blocks etc).

 

All change that you want to experience in your life will always come about first by changing the conditions of your inner world (thinking, beliefs etc). Remember noticing the cars on the road, yet before you were interested in a certain car you hardly noticed them, but the day you became interested and or purchased one, all of a sudden you noticed so many more of them right. Proof the outside world aligns in ways to reflect out inner reality, and there is evidence of this principle everywhere in life, but we are just not conscious of it, at least up until now.

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